Defining the perfect woman

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Defining the perfect woman

مشاركة بواسطة Angel Love » الأحد إبريل 11, 2010 1:20

After suffering a long week of ridicule and lecturing here's what the guys had to say:

1. 23% said they want their significant other to be beautiful in their eyes (which brings us back to beauty is in the eye of the beholder)

2. 20 % want their partners to be intelligent (not just a high I.Q but smart) to understand what they want to say without saying it, to provoke and initiate conversation and to have a mind of their own (to believe in themselves).

3. 15 % want their partner to be religious, because if she is then that will include all the "loving, God-fearing and obedience" factors out there.

4. 13 % of the guys want her to be romantic and caring but not glued on to them (as one reader said "that’s just nasty").

5. 12 % think that having a beautiful soul or personality is extremely important. Simplicity and modesty were as important as well.

6. 11% look for trust-worthiness and honesty in Mrs. Perfect. They want their woman to be direct, brave and reliable. Honest to her partner and herself.

7. 10 % seek attention. Their other half should be madly in love with them especially for who they are, not what they might be in the future.

8. 9 % don’t want a nag or a pushy woman. They don’t want a self-obsessed partner that doesn’t listen. As quoted by another reader "big turn-off".

9. 7 % said they want someone to understand them, appreciate them and the things they do, take care of them and support or motivate them into becoming better people.

10. 4 % say decency and integrity are main factors in choosing Mrs. Perfect. In their opinion if she's respectful and committed, everything else will follow.


Then, along came specific requests by some users:

Vegetarian

Have hobbies (like reading, ****ing…)
Sporty

Comes from a good family that I love

Optimist

Polite

And clean (again with the cleanliness!)

A couple hundred comments later and 2 articles on "defining" Mr. and Mrs. Perfect, I would like to conclude what we've learned . . .

You can't define the perfect man or woman.

Perfection is a subjective and relative thing where perfection exists only in God.

Judging your partner will only ruin your relationship and looking for perfection will prevent you from having a relationship in the first place.

Men and women should give up on the word "perfect" and should replace it with" perfect for me".

Relationships should be compared to keys and locks where two people should intertwine and fit together like a key and its lock.

Neither the keys nor the locks are even close to ideal but together they match.

They're about knowing each others differences and accepting them the way they are (don’t try to change them, just accept them the way they are).

You can find all these criteria in one person and still not like him/her just because" there's something missing".

Chemistry is what you should be looking for, not perfection, because if you have good chemistry then all you need is commitment and you're good to go.

Couples should tolerate each other more and not examine their every move.

They should care for their partners more than they care for others while still giving them some space to grow.

They should bring out the best in you and help you with your imperfections instead of pointing out your faults. If you truly love the person you’re with, then this is what will come naturally (its basic instinct).

There are no guidelines on how to maintain a healthy relationship since relationships differ from one person to another. What's good for you might not work for someone else.

"Perfection is achieved, not when there is nothing more to add, but when there is nothing left to take away."

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